Interestingly I’ve had several email’s in the last two days concerning couples growing apart. It must be getting close to a full moon.
My reply’s were very similar. If you think your partner is drifting away from how the relationship used to be, take action. It is your personal responsibility (and mine) to go the extra mile. Ask them for help. Take the approach that you are trying to be a better partner by being more caring, or whatever you choose, and need them to help you recognize and identify how you could be more caring.
Enlist their help and don’t wait for them to change – because they won’t. Trying to change another person does make for great first marriages. What are your thoughts?