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		<title>E-mail Etiquette: &#8220;Reply All&#8221; button can do more than send a message</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 18:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marsha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ops!  Hitting the Reply All button strikes havoc once again.  The State Department's email was almost shut down because of the size of an email. One person decided to hit this email choice, clogging the system to a noticeable level. So here are some considerations for better e-mail etiquette. Marsha Petrie Sue shares the top ten rules for using email effectively.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops!  Hitting the Reply All button strikes havoc once again.  The <a title="Reply-All nails State Department" href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/elections/2009/01/11/reply-e-mail-storm-hits-state-department/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.foxnews.com/politics/elections/2009/01/11/reply-e-mail-storm-hits-state-department/?referer=');">State Department</a>&#8216;s email was almost shut down because of the size of an email. One person decided to hit this email choice, clogging the system to a noticeable level. So here are some considerations for better e-mail etiquette.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/etiquet.gif"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-274" title="etiquet" src="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/etiquet.gif" alt="Use your email appropriately!" width="98" height="121" /></a></p>
<p>1. Select only the people in the cc: list that care about or need the information.  Rarely is it everyone on the carbon copy diatribe.</p>
<p>2. Re-title the message as the theme and topic changes. For the receiver of the message, it keeps the focus on what you are addressing.  For you, it makes it easier if you are searching for a message previously sent.</p>
<p>3. Obvious, but people still do it.  <a title="Doug has the reason!" href="http://www.virtu-software.com/ask-doug/QandA.asp?q=15" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.virtu-software.com/ask-doug/QandA.asp?q=15&amp;referer=');">Don&#8217;t type in all cap</a>s.  It is hard to read and can be interpreted as shouting.</p>
<p>4. If you have a questions that has not been answered in two emails, pick up the phone or walk to other person&#8217;s office. This will save you time and build better relationships.</p>
<p>5. If you are upset and sending an email to address the situation, write it and <a title="Why not to send an angry email" href="http://www.commondreams.org/headlines01/0406-04.htm" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.commondreams.org/headlines01/0406-04.htm?referer=');">save it</a> as a draft.  Wait at least one hour, reread the message, and you will find that you need to rewrite part of the message and extract the emotion and anger.</p>
<p>6. Be concise and to the point. Think about using bullet points.  Most readers find this much easier to read, especially when you are receiving so many emails every day!</p>
<p>7. Make sure the original message (called a message thread) is included in your reply.  Otherwise the recipient may not have the context of your answer.</p>
<p>8. Use proper punctuation, structure and layout.</p>
<p>9. Do not use email to discuss confidential matters and consider adding a disclaimer to your message.</p>
<p>10. Try to read and proof your email before sending it. (This is one I&#8217;m working on!!)</p>
<p>Here a couple other posts on email that will help too!  <a title="More information on email from Marsha" href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/category/email/" target="_blank">http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/category/email/</a></p>

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		<title>Are Your Email and In Box Communications Overwhelming?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 15:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marsha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my goals is to simplify my life to to stay in control of the little things &#8211; like how I choose to handle my email and snail mail. One step I took was to sign up for Life Lock &#8211; and yes they have been under siege in the media. I really don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my goals is to <a href="http://www.mysimplerlife.com/blog/" title="Some other ideas on simplifying" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.mysimplerlife.com/blog/?referer=');">simplify</a> my life to to stay in control of the little things &#8211; like how I choose to handle my email and snail mail.  One step I took was to sign up for Life Lock &#8211; and yes they have been under siege in the media.  I really don&#8217;t care because they have helped me eliminate a ton of junk mail in my snail mail box.  Not only do they protect and secure my personal information but they have helped me simplify!!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.lifelock.com/todd-davis?promocode=WEBCOMP" title="Get the info you deserve about Life Lock" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.lifelock.com/todd-davis?promocode=WEBCOMP&amp;referer=');">Todd Davis</a> has a great retort to the media and naysayers trying to dis his <a href="www.LifeLock.com" title="Official web site ">Life Lock</a> product. Here is a recap of what he says&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/logo.gif" title="LifeLock -"><img src="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/logo.thumbnail.gif" title="LifeLock -" alt="LifeLock -" align="middle" border="0" /></a></p>
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<li>Last year alone, 3 percent of all Americans were victims of real <a href="http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/microsites/idtheft/" title="The seriousness of Identit Theft" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/microsites/idtheft/?referer=');">identity theft,</a> and an astounding one-third of the U.S. population was subject to identity fraud.</li>
<li>Analysts at LifeLock, which protects the identities of over a million members, statistically would expect to see see 30,000 of those members experience identity thefts.</li>
<li>However, only 105 out of over one million LifeLock members, or just over .01 percent of those protected by LifeLock, have ever reported their identities stolen &#8212; and LifeLock ‘s $1 Million Total <a href="http://www.lifelock.com/our-guarantee" title="Read their guarantee" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.lifelock.com/our-guarantee?referer=');">Service Guarantee</a> covered everyone of them without any limitations or stipulations.</li>
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<p>I signed up using the <a href="http://www.lifepromo.com/?kw=g2llpb5+life%20lock&amp;gclid=CMeA2__rvJMCFQL8iAod5E0rCw" title="Life Lock Promo" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.lifepromo.com/?kw=g2llpb5+life_20lock_amp_gclid=CMeA2_rvJMCFQL8iAod5E0rCw&amp;referer=');">special promo&#8230;</a><br />
Now here is what it has done for me &#8211; ALL the credit card offers have stopped in the snail mail, saving me a ton of time sorting and shredding the stuff I was getting.  LifeLock is constantly adding benefits to their product &#8211; and I like that.  In addition my <a href="http://www.junkbusters.com/junkemail.html" title="Check out Junk Busters" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.junkbusters.com/junkemail.html?referer=');">junk email </a>is not nearly as huge as it was.  Did they have something to do with it?  I don&#8217;t know &#8211; but I&#8217;m guessing they did.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s another tip about all the cataloges you receive &#8211; stop the madness today by registering at <a href="www.catalogchoice.org" title="Stop the paper madness">www.catalogchoice.org</a> to search and decline.  As of April 1, 694,478 people had opted out of 9,181,316 cataloges and I&#8217;m sure the <a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-admin/www.NWF.org" title="Official web site ">National Wildlife Federation</a> and the <a href="www.nrdc.org/" title="Save a tree!">Natural Resources Defense Council</a> are breathing a little easier.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s simplify!! Let me know what you do to simplify your life.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/hp_flag.jpg" title="I pledge allegiance…"><img src="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/hp_flag.thumbnail.jpg" title="I pledge allegiance…" alt="I pledge allegiance…" border="0" /></a></p>
<p><a href="www.usmemorialday.org/" title="Learn why we celebrate memorial day">Happy Memorial Day!! </a></p>
<p>Marsha</p>

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		<title>Technology Hell: testing personal development through computer problems</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 00:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marsha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The last two weeks have been awful because my Apple computer, while I was on the road traveling, decided to become Toxic. It was a Microsoft Office problem &#8211; not a Apple hardware problem. I had NO Entourage email address book, had to use the mail service through my web site (pain in the butt) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/images.jpg" title="I love Apple Computers!"><img src="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/images.thumbnail.jpg" title="I love Apple Computers!" alt="I love Apple Computers!" border="0" /></a>The last two weeks have been awful because my Apple computer, while I was on the road traveling, decided to become Toxic.  It was a <a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-admin/blog.wired.com/monkeybites/2008/01/microsoft-offic.html" title="Microsoft doesn't always offer support">Microsoft Office</a> problem &#8211; not a Apple hardware problem. I had NO <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microsoft_Entourage" title="What is Entourage?" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microsoft_Entourage?referer=');">Entourage</a> email address book, had to use the mail service through my web site (pain in the butt) and other &#8220;difficult behavior&#8221; that only technology can create. My productivity was in the tubes!</p>
<p>The good news was I did have my <a href="http://www.apple.com/iphone/gettingstarted/usingiphone.html" title="iPhone information" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.apple.com/iphone/gettingstarted/usingiphone.html?referer=');">iPhone</a> &#8211; which is something everyone should have.</p>
<p>I took my own advice, didn&#8217;t get ticked off or mad, went to <a href="http://www.macmediainc.com/" title="Apple experts and nice guys" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.macmediainc.com/?referer=');">MacMedia</a> (angels from heaven) Store<a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/995259-160.jpg" title="Angels from Heaven"><img src="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/995259-160.thumbnail.jpg" title="Angels from Heaven" alt="Angels from Heaven" align="right" border="0" /></a> and am now the proud owner of a <a href="http://store.apple.com/1-800-MY-APPLE/WebObjects/AppleStore?node=home/shop_mac/family/macbook_pro&amp;cid=OAS-US-KWG-CPUMacBookPro-US&amp;aosid=p202&amp;esvt=GOUSE103650846&amp;esvadt=999999-0-1072096-1&amp;esvid=1846" title="MacBook Pro 15" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/store.apple.com/1-800-MY-APPLE/WebObjects/AppleStore?node=home/shop_mac/family/macbook_pro_amp_cid=OAS-US-KWG-CPUMacBookPro-US_amp_aosid=p202_amp_esvt=GOUSE103650846_amp_esvadt=999999-0-1072096-1_amp_esvid=1846&amp;referer=');">MacBook Pro</a>.  So here was my lesson and personal development  from having to read through over 500 e-mail messages that were delivered from cyberspace:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.decontaminatetoxicpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/aniemail1z.GIF" title="E-mail rules"><br />
</a></p>
<p>1. When the topic of the <a href="http://elc.polyu.edu.hk/CILL/eiw/e-mail.htm" title="How to write good email" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/elc.polyu.edu.hk/CILL/eiw/e-mail.htm?referer=');">email</a> changes, change the subject line of the email.  Now how hard is that????</p>
<p>2. Be sure you send a copy of the email you are answering.  Receiving an email that says, &#8220;Great idea.  Let&#8217;s do it&#8221;  means I have to search out what is being deemed &#8220;Great.&#8221; Unless of course, you only get three emails a day.</p>
<p>3. Cover one, maximum two topics per email.  My preference is one subject. That way I can answer what I want and flag the others for follow up.</p>
<p>4. Don&#8217;t babble and ramble! Get to the point &#8211; and even use numbers or bullets. (Can you tell what style I am in the behavioral cycle?? <a href="http://typelogic.com/estj.html" title="My ESTJ Profile if you care" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/typelogic.com/estj.html?referer=');">MBTI &#8211; ESTJ</a>)</p>
<p>5. Just like customer service rule #1 &#8212; tell me in a simple message that you are &#8220;checking&#8221; or &#8220;researching&#8221; the message so I don&#8217;t think a truck has run you down.   I think the rule should be 6 hours and get out a response of some kind.</p>
<p>6. If the information is too complex, sensitive or personal, pick up the phone.</p>
<p>If you want more on perception, please check out my  <a href="http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=fgPaiX7exm4" title="My ideas on communications - You Tube" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/uk.youtube.com/watch?v=fgPaiX7exm4&amp;referer=');">youtube video</a><a href="http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=fgPaiX7exm4" title="My ideas on communications - You Tube" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/uk.youtube.com/watch?v=fgPaiX7exm4&amp;referer=');">.</a> http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=fgPaiX7exm4</p>
<p>Do you have any pet peeves about email?  Do you have any rules you would like people to follow?  I would love to hear from you!</p>
<p>Marsha</p>

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