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Independence and You!

If you truly strive to be independent in your life, professionally and personally, then you must take personal responsibility for your every move. Making better choices is the key that will pave the path of life for you. Stop waiting for someone else to do this for you. They are not coming.

Do you think the founding fathers of the United States of America were waiting for someone to guide them? They were tired of the duty on tea that had not yet been repealed & the declaratory act of a right in the British parliament to bind this new country by English laws. They took risk.

Manage Stress and Decontaminate Toxic People

Stress-The confusion created when the mind overrides the body’s desire to choke the living daylights out of some jerk who desperately deserves it.

Now that’s not nice or really useful because you have just given in to someone else’s behavior.  A poor outcome is just about guaranteed. It is all about taking personal responsibility for your outcomes.

So here are  some stress management tips for toxic people or those difficult situations life serves up:

1. Breathe – when you are stressed, you stop breathing.  The brain receives no oxygen so you can’t think and will immediately flee to the fight or flight — choke the living out of them, or flee.

Stop. Think. Learn. Plan. Do.

I’ve learned that fishing is not necessarily a sport of drowning worms. That is why it is important to check the weather report, read the local area fishing information and understand how people are catching fish.

Why is this so much like life? I believe if we did our homework whether shopping for a home, a loan or a phone, we would get much better results. But most people want it now without much consideration. Their amazing fast track will get them where? And is it what they really want?